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kantkatchme
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so i know that no one here can tell me what i want... but i thought i would see what you had to say... im having a hard time deciding where to get a tattoo... i dont need anyone to tell me about how they are permanent and that i had better like cause its never coming off... i already have my whole back done.. as well as a few others... but all of my tattoos are easily hidden. my dilemma is this: I really want to get this one on my arm. above my elbow on the inside... my problem is that im going to law school in the fall.. when im a lawyer how much of a problem will this be? school doesnt matter so much, but as a professional i imagine it will. i know a buch of you on here have tattoos, if you have to cover them for work how does that work for you? I dont have a problem 6 months of the year, but when its nice and i would like to wear short sleves i wont be able too. im not sure thats a sacrifice that i am willing to make.. i guess what i really want to know is how you deal with it.. i was also thinking of getting it done on my ribs, just under my bra stap.. it will hurt like a bitch.. ive already had the other side done... but at least it will b easy to cover.. i just really wanted someting on my arm... grr.. why did i have to want to be a profesional.. what do you people think.. thanks -k
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You say above your elbow. You talking about the inside part of your biceps? If so, that should be easily hidden by t-shirt sleeves. Your artist, assuming they have a modicum of skill, should be able to do the tat "sleeve length." I have one on my left arm, outside part of the biceps, and it's covered by a t-shirt (unless the shirt is kinda small, in which case you can just barely see the very bottom of the design.) The other thing is the tastefullness of the tat. A decent piece of art is generally not frowned upon as much as, say, a skull with a dagger through the head, snakes coming out from the eyes, blood dripping from the teeth, and "Aryan Brotherhood 4 Ever!" scribed below.
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kantkatchme
Feb 5, 2008, 4:28 AM
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yes inside part of biceps.... the thing is i dont want it up high enough that a short sleeve will cover it. i guess rib cage it is. haha plus it isnt the most graceful piece of art..its something that a bunch of friends are getting...
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kantkatchme wrote: plus it isnt the most graceful piece of art..its something that a bunch of friends are getting... Then you're doing it for the wrong reasons, and nothing anyone tells you is going to matter a damn. Getting a tattoo that all your friends are getting. How very dumb.
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Feb 5, 2008, 4:49 AM
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no its not dumb... its a memory.. but thanks.. im not gtting it becuase they are.. we are getting it together.. to remember someone who we lost.. dont tell me m reasons are dumb... ive had enough ink done to kow what is a stupid idea and what isnt. edit: maybe it is a stupid idea, but at this point im gonna do it anyways.. :) i should know what im getting into when i post here.. ill sit and take it now...
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kantkatchme wrote: ive had enough ink done to kow what is a stupid idea and what isnt. then you should be able to tell yourself the answer to this question, shouldn't you? unless you actually want opinions from lawyers, not ink-owners. my tats are highly visible, quite tasteful, and never ever a problem.
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kantkatchme
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have you had to go to court? ive seen one of yours.. i like it.. i just dont know if havig it on my arm will bother me when im all grown up and have to be presentable in a professional manner. i guess i was hoping for professional people with ink to answer. thanks Mrs.Z
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kantkatchme wrote: have you had to go to court? ive seen one of yours.. i like it.. i just dont know if havig it on my arm will bother me when im all grown up and have to be presentable in a professional manner. i guess i was hoping for professional people with ink to answer. thanks Mrs.Z Rule 1 of getting a tat: Never get one that you don't want for the rest of your life. Rule 2: Never get one in a place that you can't hide from your grandmother or a judge. And you HAVE gotten answers from professionals with ink work. You just didn't like those answers.
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I have no tattoos.... My only experience with them was seeing my brother, who is a tattoo artist, give them to others and the one's he's gotten himself. But if your concern is about hiding them in work situation, I would see what other lawyers have to say. The things I would consider are: - For interviews and when actually in court, it's unlikely that you will be wearing a short-sleeved shirt, isn't it? - The big issue, I'd guess, is how you would be seen within your firm and how it would affect your ability to rise within if your peers and superiors know about the tattoos. I assume that in some conservative firms that might be a big issue. I don't know about law firms, but I can tell you that lawyers are just like everyone else in that they have "things" they don't necessarily trot out at work, but that don't mean they aren't kinky as get out "on the inside." In fact, some people really get a rush out of having their little "secret" and being viewed by the general population as very straight-laced and conservative.... I bet if you went on a lawyers forum that had a community0like atmosphere(they must exist, right?), you would find out that many other lawyers have dealt with the issue and have good advice. My sister-in-law has a remembrance tattoo, for her first-born child who was premature and alive outside her womb for only a few days before she and my brother had to make the decision to take him off life support. Poor little Guage,RIP. Her tattoo is quite large, a crying angel surrounded by lilies. She has it high on her inner thigh.
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reno wrote: kantkatchme wrote: have you had to go to court? ive seen one of yours.. i like it.. i just dont know if havig it on my arm will bother me when im all grown up and have to be presentable in a professional manner. i guess i was hoping for professional people with ink to answer. thanks Mrs.Z Rule 1 of getting a tat: Never get one that you don't want for the rest of your life. Rule 2: Never get one in a place that you can't hide from your grandmother or a judge. And you HAVE gotten answers from professionals with ink work. You just didn't like those answers. I can see grammy, but why a judge? Call me naive, but you'd think someone in such a position of power would be able to at least see past something as superficial as ink (depending on what it is, of course: a dude on trial for hate crimes with a hate crime tatoo....well...). Tats are pretty normal. BTW, what's your tat reno? "Hillary Forever"?
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happiegrrrl wrote: My sister-in-law has a remembrance tattoo, for her first-born child who was premature and alive outside her womb for only a few days before she and my brother had to make the decision to take him off life support. Poor little Guage,RIP. Her tattoo is quite large, a crying angel surrounded by lilies. She has it high on her inner thigh. Not to get too far off topic, and I truly mean no disrespect to you or your family, but this just seems like a poor, poor place to put a tatto in remberance of a deceased child. Every time your brother goes to have sex with his wife, he's going to see this reminder of his loss. I don't think I could do it, at least with the lights on anyway. Back on topic, I'm a lawyer with no ink. In any decent sized firm, you're going to have old school partners that you'll have to prove your abilities too. A lot of them will be looking upon you with greater scrutiny because you're a woman (sorry, I don't make the rules, but it is what it is). Going into this with a visable tatto is going to make your battle much more difficult. They just won't take you seriously. If you plan on being in this situation, get the tat somewhere you can hide it when you're in the office.
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wjca wrote: Not to get too far off topic, and I truly mean no disrespect to you or your family, but this just seems like a poor, poor place to put a tatto in remberance of a deceased child. Every time your brother goes to have sex with his wife, he's going to see this reminder of his loss. I don't think I could do it, at least with the lights on anyway. Hmmmm...maybe that's why they haven't had any more children.... Just kidding(they have two boys). My brother and she decided on the tattoo/placement together. My brother was unbelievable crushed by the loss, and I will never forget the look of agony on his face as he carried that tiny casket from the church to the burial ground next door. The location has specific meaning, but I can see your point, for sure.
In reply to: Back on topic.... A lot of them will be looking upon you with greater scrutiny because you're a woman (sorry, I don't make the rules, but it is what it is). I had wanted to mention the "female" issue too, but....I'm glad someone in the know came out and stated it.
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kantkatchme wrote: have you had to go to court? ive seen one of yours.. i like it.. i just dont know if havig it on my arm will bother me when im all grown up and have to be presentable in a professional manner. i guess i was hoping for professional people with ink to answer. thanks Mrs.Z I am "professional people." I am a scientist. So, no, I don't go to court. Honestly, I would say it sounds like a bad idea. if you are dead set on it, get it in black and white, no color ink. this is simply because (as a general rule, and of course there are exceptions) but as a general rule the more colorful the tat, the trashier it looks. color is $$$ to get right. another thought is: do you have really nice arms? if you don't, if you have any flab under your arms at all.... you would definitely not be doing yourself a favor with a tat on your bicep. something to think about. furthermore, how did your friend die? not to put too fine a point on it, but if they died, say, drunk driving, that might be kind of an awkward story to have to tell to everyone you meet for the rest of your life. do think about that. [I have a black band on my finger (engagement, soon to be joined by a second for the wedding) and an x-ray of DNA on my inner forearm.]
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Dose anyone else find it a bit ironic that clausti is giving tattoo advice? I mean she did get a tattoo to symbolize a lifelong commitment in an area that will only last 6-14 months? Sorry clausti I just had to! Seriously though, cllusti and few others have given some good advice I hope you take it and get a great tattoo that won’t give you issues with your job.
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You might be able to find law firms that don't mind a tat being visible, and have a great career, but it is also very likely that unless you are willing to wear long sleeves the rest of your life, you will be closing some doors on yourself by getting a visible tattoo. As a lawyer you will be representing people. It is very likely that some firms won't wan t someone representing them w/ tattoos, and some clients who won't want to be represented by a tatted up person because their personal view is it is unprofessional. I unless your willing to potentially sacrifice some opportunities I would say get it in a non visible spot or accept long sleeves in your future.
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erisspirit wrote: You might be able to find law firms that don't mind a tat being visible, and have a great career, but it is also very likely that unless you are willing to wear long sleeves the rest of your life, you will be closing some doors on yourself by getting a visible tattoo. As a lawyer you will be representing people. It is very likely that some firms won't wan t someone representing them w/ tattoos, and some clients who won't want to be represented by a tatted up person because their personal view is it is unprofessional. I unless your willing to potentially sacrifice some opportunities I would say get it in a non visible spot or accept long sleeves in your future. bingo.
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Excluding your arms(18% body surface), Head(another 9)and lower legs(another 18%), you still have 55% of your body. Go to town on that.
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caughtinside wrote: erisspirit wrote: You might be able to find law firms that don't mind a tat being visible, and have a great career, but it is also very likely that unless you are willing to wear long sleeves the rest of your life, you will be closing some doors on yourself by getting a visible tattoo. As a lawyer you will be representing people. It is very likely that some firms won't wan t someone representing them w/ tattoos, and some clients who won't want to be represented by a tatted up person because their personal view is it is unprofessional. I unless your willing to potentially sacrifice some opportunities I would say get it in a non visible spot or accept long sleeves in your future. bingo. True. I was lucky enough to get a job with a big national firm who couldn't care less if my tats are showing, but they are also tasteful, and can be covered up by wearing a collared shirt and pants for client meetings, etc. I think firms in less conservative markets are less likely to care so long as they can be covered up when need be.
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Mrs_Zeke wrote: caughtinside wrote: erisspirit wrote: You might be able to find law firms that don't mind a tat being visible, and have a great career, but it is also very likely that unless you are willing to wear long sleeves the rest of your life, you will be closing some doors on yourself by getting a visible tattoo. As a lawyer you will be representing people. It is very likely that some firms won't wan t someone representing them w/ tattoos, and some clients who won't want to be represented by a tatted up person because their personal view is it is unprofessional. I unless your willing to potentially sacrifice some opportunities I would say get it in a non visible spot or accept long sleeves in your future. bingo. True. I was lucky enough to get a job with a big national firm who couldn't care less if my tats are showing, but they are also tasteful, and can be covered up by wearing a collared shirt and pants for client meetings, etc. I think firms in less conservative markets are less likely to care so long as they can be covered up when need be. Mrs. Zeke frequently has the nightmare that she's at client meeting and not wearing pantz.
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imnotclever wrote: Mrs_Zeke wrote: caughtinside wrote: erisspirit wrote: You might be able to find law firms that don't mind a tat being visible, and have a great career, but it is also very likely that unless you are willing to wear long sleeves the rest of your life, you will be closing some doors on yourself by getting a visible tattoo. As a lawyer you will be representing people. It is very likely that some firms won't wan t someone representing them w/ tattoos, and some clients who won't want to be represented by a tatted up person because their personal view is it is unprofessional. I unless your willing to potentially sacrifice some opportunities I would say get it in a non visible spot or accept long sleeves in your future. bingo. True. I was lucky enough to get a job with a big national firm who couldn't care less if my tats are showing, but they are also tasteful, and can be covered up by wearing a collared shirt and pants for client meetings, etc. I think firms in less conservative markets are less likely to care so long as they can be covered up when need be. Mrs. Zeke frequently has the nightmare that she's at client meeting and not wearing pantz. I think you are mistaking your dreams for mine ... I meant pants....as opposed to a skirt.
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Mrs_Zeke wrote: imnotclever wrote: Mrs_Zeke wrote: caughtinside wrote: erisspirit wrote: You might be able to find law firms that don't mind a tat being visible, and have a great career, but it is also very likely that unless you are willing to wear long sleeves the rest of your life, you will be closing some doors on yourself by getting a visible tattoo. As a lawyer you will be representing people. It is very likely that some firms won't wan t someone representing them w/ tattoos, and some clients who won't want to be represented by a tatted up person because their personal view is it is unprofessional. I unless your willing to potentially sacrifice some opportunities I would say get it in a non visible spot or accept long sleeves in your future. bingo. True. I was lucky enough to get a job with a big national firm who couldn't care less if my tats are showing, but they are also tasteful, and can be covered up by wearing a collared shirt and pants for client meetings, etc. I think firms in less conservative markets are less likely to care so long as they can be covered up when need be. Mrs. Zeke frequently has the nightmare that she's at client meeting and not wearing pantz. I think you are mistaking your dreams for mine ... I meant pants....as opposed to a skirt. A friend of mine was just telling me last weekend how he has those dreams sometimes.
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happiegrrrl wrote: chadnsc wrote: I mean she did get a tattoo to symbolize a lifelong commitment in an area that will only last 6-14 months? I don't understand what this poster meant in an area that will only last 6-14 months... What do you mean? marriage isn't going to last you missed the joke again
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I've got PTFTW tattooed across my knuckles and haven't been fired yet.
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microbarn wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: chadnsc wrote: I mean she did get a tattoo to symbolize a lifelong commitment in an area that will only last 6-14 months? I don't understand what this poster meant in an area that will only last 6-14 months... What do you mean? marriage isn't going to last you missed the joke again actually, it was a kind of hard joke to get. I think he meant that finger tattoos have a reputation of only lasting 6-14 months...
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camhead wrote: microbarn wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: chadnsc wrote: I mean she did get a tattoo to symbolize a lifelong commitment in an area that will only last 6-14 months? I don't understand what this poster meant in an area that will only last 6-14 months... What do you mean? marriage isn't going to last you missed the joke again actually, it was a kind of hard joke to get. I think he meant that finger tattoos have a reputation of only lasting 6-14 months... My PTFTW tattoo is about a year old now and I haven't had any fading issues or scarring from crack jamming.
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caughtinside wrote: camhead wrote: microbarn wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: chadnsc wrote: I mean she did get a tattoo to symbolize a lifelong commitment in an area that will only last 6-14 months? I don't understand what this poster meant in an area that will only last 6-14 months... What do you mean? marriage isn't going to last you missed the joke again actually, it was a kind of hard joke to get. I think he meant that finger tattoos have a reputation of only lasting 6-14 months... My PTFTW tattoo is about a year old now and I haven't had any fading issues or scarring from crack jamming. TAHT'Z cUz U mak3 teh Lab4ckzZZ!!!!111 n0 stYl3 4 C-eYe!!!111
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camhead wrote: caughtinside wrote: camhead wrote: microbarn wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: chadnsc wrote: I mean she did get a tattoo to symbolize a lifelong commitment in an area that will only last 6-14 months? I don't understand what this poster meant in an area that will only last 6-14 months... What do you mean? marriage isn't going to last you missed the joke again actually, it was a kind of hard joke to get. I think he meant that finger tattoos have a reputation of only lasting 6-14 months... My PTFTW tattoo is about a year old now and I haven't had any fading issues or scarring from crack jamming. TAHT'Z cUz U mak3 teh Lab4ckzZZ!!!!111 n0 stYl3 4 C-eYe!!!111 UzIZ T@PEZ 22222! T@Pe Iz teh HIV!!!!
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camhead wrote: microbarn wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: chadnsc wrote: I mean she did get a tattoo to symbolize a lifelong commitment in an area that will only last 6-14 months? I don't understand what this poster meant in an area that will only last 6-14 months... What do you mean? marriage isn't going to last you missed the joke again actually, it was a kind of hard joke to get. I think he meant that finger tattoos have a reputation of only lasting 6-14 months... opps, yea my bad
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oh.... well, I just thought that was too crass a thing to say as a joke, and discarded the notion. I guess the person and clausti/camhead know each other and can make such sort of joke.
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now that i've slept on it.. i appreciate what has been said. thanks everyone my friend drowned, so it wont be one of those awkward.. "well we were all drunk and i drove into a bus and killed her" moments.. i happen to like my arms... but when im 60 i might not. if i get it ribs it will be, if i get it. I used to have a rule that i had to wait at least a month after figuring out what i wanted to get before i had it done.. the more i think about it the more i wonder why i would get it. I loved her, she was one of my best friends. do i really need a tattoo? maybe not... thanks again. -K
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dr_feelgood wrote: camhead wrote: caughtinside wrote: camhead wrote: microbarn wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: chadnsc wrote: I mean she did get a tattoo to symbolize a lifelong commitment in an area that will only last 6-14 months? I don't understand what this poster meant in an area that will only last 6-14 months... What do you mean? marriage isn't going to last you missed the joke again actually, it was a kind of hard joke to get. I think he meant that finger tattoos have a reputation of only lasting 6-14 months... My PTFTW tattoo is about a year old now and I haven't had any fading issues or scarring from crack jamming. TAHT'Z cUz U mak3 teh Lab4ckzZZ!!!!111 n0 stYl3 4 C-eYe!!!111 UzIZ T@PEZ 22222! T@Pe Iz teh HIV!!!! I wouldn't even think of liebacking without heavily taped hands and fingers. I can't bear to think of my beautiful, patrician hands, creamy skin and elegant fingers damaged by torquing in cracks, sans tap3.
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chadnsc wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: oh.... well, I just thought that was too crass a thing to say as a joke, and discarded the notion. I guess the person and clausti/camhead know each other and can make such sort of joke. Nope don't know 'em. I was referencing this thread: http://www.rockclimbing.com/...ost=1779879;#1779879 Crass, maybe but it was too funny to have someone giving advice about tattoos when the person giving the advice didn't really know much about tattoos. It's all good though. In 20 years clausti and cam will just have really nice ring scars! meh, i didnt think it was crass.... i'm not sure where you're getting that from? but the artist that did my ring has knuckle tats, and they look fine, though i didnt ask to the month how old they are. i was more told that finger ink will blur, but since its just a line, i dont really care- a ring scar will serve the purpose equally well. kantcatchme- dont feel like you're copping out if you don't get a tattoo, ok? logical reasons for not getting a tat are plentiful and diverse, and i'm sure you're friend would understand whatever you pick.
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chadnsc wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: oh.... well, I just thought that was too crass a thing to say as a joke, and discarded the notion. I guess the person and clausti/camhead know each other and can make such sort of joke. Nope don't know 'em. I was referencing this thread: http://www.rockclimbing.com/...ost=1779879;#1779879 Crass, maybe but it was too funny to have someone giving advice about tattoos when the person giving the advice didn't really know much about tattoos. It's all good though. In 20 years clausti and cam will just have really nice ring scars! yeah, i didn't see his comment as insulting or crass, either. I remember chadnsc's comments about why he did not get wedding ring tattoos, and they were valid points. clausti and I decided that, even with fade-age, we wanted to get them done. Even getting touch-ups in a couple years is better than wearing a ring, from my perspective.
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wanderlustmd wrote: I can see grammy, but why a judge? Call me naive, but you'd think someone in such a position of power would be able to at least see past something as superficial as ink (depending on what it is, of course: a dude on trial for hate crimes with a hate crime tatoo....well...). Tats are pretty normal. Most judges I've met -- both in casual, social settings and in.... err... other settings -- struck me as older, more conservative (small "c", not big "C"), and old fashioned. From the era when ink work was only done by bikers, outlaws, and other seedy sorts. Right, wrong, or indifferent, that mentality can carry over when dealing with said judge in a formal court. Not saying it's right. Just saying it "is." While I'd like to think that judges would be professional enough to look past it, I wouldn't want to take that chance. Kinda like I'd hope that judges wouldn't make assumptions based on a person's attire, but I'm still wearing a shirt and tie to court, not my black leather pants, a ripped up "Molly Hatchet" tank-top and a pair of combat boots. 'Dig?
In reply to: BTW, what's your tat reno? "Hillary Forever"? Heh. That was my first choice, along with "burn in hell" between the two words, but I couldn't fit it all on my scrawny biceps, so I opted instead for Chinese symbols that say "Emergency Healer" (or "emergency medicine man," depending on whom you ask.)
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happiegrrrl
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I thought "crass" based on microbarn's explanation - that your marriage would last those months. Posted beofr reading the other replies, I guess. But I don't think finger tattooos are short-lived. I've seen old man ex-hoodlums with love and hate (tattooed across the the knuckles on their hands) and the tattoos aren't faded or very blurred. I don't think they go in for touch ups like a girl goes in for wraps on her nails.... One place I can tell you don't fade - the forearm with a concentration camp number. Ho-lee shit. I've only seen it twice but I can tell you it's a pretty hefty dose of reality when it happens. Once was on a nice old lady I was helping on the sidewalk, but the first - I went into a lamp parts store down on the Bowery(Galaxy Lighting) and waited for-ever in line. It was one of those wholesale/retail places and 'the place to go" for lamp parts. Anyway, my number finally gets called, I go up to the old wood counter with parts bis in front and all along the walls behind, and tell the guy what I need. He's a small, frail-looking old man, but he knows his parts, and turns around and locates the piece in a second. As he extends his hand to show it to me, I see the numbers..... I look in his eyes, and they slam shut like a steel door. I know better than to make a comment or ask a question, and by the time our transaction has finished, his eyes are back to the soft, shopkeeper minding his store eyes.
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carabiner96
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reno wrote: I opted instead for Chinese symbols that say "Emergency Healer" (or "emergency medicine man," depending on whom you ask.) At least you home thats what it says!
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reno
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happiegrrrl wrote: But I don't think finger tattooos are short-lived. I've seen old man ex-hoodlums with love and hate (tattooed across the the knuckles on their hands) and the tattoos aren't faded or very blurred. I once had a patient that had F-U-C-K, one letter on each finger between the knuckles. I had half a mind to tell him that he could remove two of them and claim to be a University of Kentucky fan, but my advice was ignored quite rapidly. *shrug*
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made no sense, will repost later
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chadnsc
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happiegrrrl wrote: But I don't think finger tattooos are short-lived. I've seen old man ex-hoodlums with love and hate (tattooed across the the knuckles on their hands) and the tattoos aren't faded or very blurred. I don't think they go in for touch ups like a girl goes in for wraps on her nails.... I hate to burst your bubble, but ring tattoos are completely different than knuckle tattoos. Ring tattoos wear off fast because of the constant rubbing of the ink against the adjacent fingers. Apparently the fading of the ring tattoo is also accelerated because of the sweat from your hands and the more delicate nature of the skin on your palms. Again this is from a tattoo artist I know and trust with around 15 years experience. Tattoos on the knuckles fade like normal tattoos elsewhere on your body. Typically the ink is faded resulting from sun exposure or actual physical damage to the skin (cuts, abrasions, ect). Of course the amount of ink, how it was applied, and how healthy your skin is will also effect how long a tattoo lasts.
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happiegrrrl
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My bubble's not burst. I have no tattoos and can safely say I never will. And, the only piercings have are my ears - but I do have doubles! I got it done when I was 14.
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chadnsc
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Well I'm glad nothing got burst, other than your understanding of tattoos.
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actually, chad, we did not get full rings for the reasons that you mentioned; we only have semi circles around the outer perimeter of the finger, as the insides are much more likely to slough off. I'll let y'all know in a few years how it is holding up to finger cracks, etc. hehe
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chadnsc
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I thought that's what your tattoos looked like. I hope that the semi circles work well for you and Clausti! If they do then I will defiantly be getting one! That or I could just get my wife's name across my knuckles.
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chadnsc wrote: happiegrrrl wrote: But I don't think finger tattooos are short-lived. I've seen old man ex-hoodlums with love and hate (tattooed across the the knuckles on their hands) and the tattoos aren't faded or very blurred. I don't think they go in for touch ups like a girl goes in for wraps on her nails.... I hate to burst your bubble, but ring tattoos are completely different than knuckle tattoos. Ring tattoos wear off fast because of the constant rubbing of the ink against the adjacent fingers. Apparently the fading of the ring tattoo is also accelerated because of the sweat from your hands and the more delicate nature of the skin on your palms. He's right. I had a tat on the palm of my right hand and it wore off in a couple of months.
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artm
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reno wrote: wanderlustmd wrote: I can see grammy, but why a judge? Call me naive, but you'd think someone in such a position of power would be able to at least see past something as superficial as ink (depending on what it is, of course: a dude on trial for hate crimes with a hate crime tatoo....well...). Tats are pretty normal. Most judges I've met -- both in casual, social settings and in.... err... other settings -- struck me as older, more conservative (small "c", not big "C"), and old fashioned. From the era when ink work was only done by bikers, outlaws, and other seedy sorts. Right, wrong, or indifferent, that mentality can carry over when dealing with said judge in a formal court. Not saying it's right. Just saying it "is." While I'd like to think that judges would be professional enough to look past it, I wouldn't want to take that chance. Kinda like I'd hope that judges wouldn't make assumptions based on a person's attire, but I'm still wearing a shirt and tie to court, not my black leather pants, a ripped up "Molly Hatchet" tank-top and a pair of combat boots. 'Dig? In reply to: BTW, what's your tat reno? "Hillary Forever"? Heh. That was my first choice, along with "burn in hell" between the two words, but I couldn't fit it all on my scrawny biceps, so I opted instead for Chinese symbols that say "Emergency Healer" (or "emergency medicine man," depending on whom you ask.) Actually Reno I've seen your tattoo and being asian can tell you that they do not mean what you think they mean. They mean Meat and Bomb
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whoo!
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Feb 8, 2008, 12:48 AM
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I recommend getting a nice PTFTW across your knuckles, like I have. Very professional. BOth hands, of course.
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caughtinside
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Very unprofessional, doc!
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dr_feelgood wrote: caughtinside wrote: Very unprofessional, doc! I can't be unprofessional if i am unemployed! perhaps you should explore a career in the sniping field?
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dominic7 wrote: dr_feelgood wrote: caughtinside wrote: Very unprofessional, doc! I can't be unprofessional if i am unemployed! perhaps you should explore a career in the sniping field? Being a hitman would be kind of fun.
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artm wrote: Actually Reno I've seen your tattoo and being asian can tell you that they do not mean what you think they mean. They mean Meat and Bomb Dood, you're a Jappo. The letters are Chinese. Now, if'n you was a Chink, maybe you'd be able to make that statement with authority. But you ain't, so you can't. Suck it, beeotch. (P.S. Mebbe out to JT start of March... 1st through 3rd or so. You free?)
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Arrogant_Bastard
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reno wrote: artm wrote: Actually Reno I've seen your tattoo and being asian can tell you that they do not mean what you think they mean. They mean Meat and Bomb Dood, you're a Jappo. The letters are Chinese. Now, if'n you was a Chink, maybe you'd be able to make that statement with authority. But you ain't, so you can't. Suck it, beeotch. (P.S. Mebbe out to JT start of March... 1st through 3rd or so. You free?) Oooh, March? Yikes, geez... bad time to come. Bring lots of handiwipes, the [censored]sweat will be ferocious.
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