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chadnsc
Nov 23, 2010, 4:53 PM
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happiegrrrl wrote: OP has stressors in her life which disallow her to let the stimulus of *others* gloss over. Excpet that you have a child, I would say you could try what I did, which was to walk away from the work-for-others *career,* start volunteering at the local crag, move into the caretaker's cabin when it becomes open, live without electricity, plumbing - or even a car, and wake up every morning to the sound of chipmunks, squirrels and the sight of the sum warming through the woods. Then, realize you simply cannot go back to the apartment in the city, buy a beat down van that everyone laughs at and head west for the winter, and live outa that van. Make a pledge to pay NO money for camping, nor spend so much as a dime in a Walmart for the duration. (One thing - if you can avoid having to stay with family on the way... it would be helpful. Buy oh well, one can't do everything perfectly - hahah). Serioulsy though - there is too much stress in your life. Find ways to reduce and eliminate it, and those people will no longer be problematic.
So your saying that what worked for you won't work for her but you still wanted to gloat about it? 
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chadnsc
Nov 23, 2010, 4:55 PM
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areyoumydude wrote: Kartessa wrote: I haven't seen an angry rant in a while. Could it be that douche bags are becoming few and far between? I doubt it. From recent observation, they now travel in packs, like middle-aged greasers looking to pick on the little kids. Dear Gym-Rat Assholes, I know that trash talking is the easiest way to masturbate your ego. I know that I don't crush as hard as your kid/girlfriend/cousin from Parry Sound. But could you please take satisfaction in your superiority by proxy in silence? I don't care. Don't talk to me. Crazy bitch: Yeah, your kid finished this route and I fell off. I don't weigh 50lbs and have an eating disorder that I got from my mom. You too, should eat something. I saw how you were eyeing my sandwich, and I didn't appreciate it. If you would stop starving yourself, you might be able hold yourself upright for more than 3 moves. Your voice annoys me. Don't talk to me. Hairy Bastard: Good for you on your redpoint on this 27ft wall of doom. Where the fuck did you come from? Who are you to tell me that I can't make this move and that the next one is totally out of my league. I've never met you before, and I hope never to see you again. Don't talk to me. Fat Fucker: Shut your fucking trap. You've been at the gym the last 3 months and I've never seen you tie in, or put your shoes on for that matter. You sit on the carpet with your big bottle of water, sweating out your sloth, and commenting on everyone's attempt on grades you would never dream of trying yourself. Don't talk to me. Creepy guy who wears his harness too tight: I don't need your beta, but I would consider letting you talk to me if it meant you would never again try to touch me. I don't need a hug and I don't have any friends that would want to sleep with you. No, not even the ugly ones. Go play with yourself or boulder over there... Don't look at me like that. Why is it, if I go to the "regular" gym, people generally keep to themselves, maybe talk to their partner but at a climbing gym so many people feel entitled to spray to anyone in earshot? I've never felt such an urge to crack skulls with grigris like I did tonite and I hated that feeling. I just want to have a good time, push myself, and encourage my friends to do the same. ... Ok, rage subsiding, sleep time. Can't relate. I'd rather go for a hike or bike ride than climb in a gym.
That's nice.
You also don't have any kids.
Live in an area with awsome year round climbing.
And have a trust fun that allows you to climb without working for a living.
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chadnsc
Nov 23, 2010, 4:57 PM
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Kartessa wrote: rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR What do you suggest I do instead? Quit my job, abandon my kid and move south so I can learn to crush hard 13s like you? The season here has ended and unless I want to spend the next 5 months couch-bound and watching Jersey Shore, this is all I get.
Actually in RB speak he's asking you to move in with him and climb at his secrete crags.
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boymeetsrock wrote: jcrew wrote: billcoe_ wrote: Dude doesn't want advice. He's just unloading! ummmm.... i think she's a chick....othwise, why would the creepy guy be trying for a touch. Yes, she's a lady, but its 2010 dude. A guy trying to rub up on another guy is certainly not unheard of.
In reply to: You need to expand your horizons.
ummmm.... i just don't find males attractive, 2010, or 3010.
back to OP:
asshole works........... or just don't take a shower for a week, then run a sport bra.
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ChalkIsCheap
Nov 23, 2010, 5:06 PM
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rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR
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chadnsc
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ChalkIsCheap wrote: rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR Up here in Canada, rock climbing is done for this time of year. I'm freezing right now and it's not even snowing yet...
Harden the fuck up you wimp. 
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happiegrrrl
Nov 23, 2010, 5:11 PM
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chadnsc wrote: So your saying that what worked for you won't work for her but you still wanted to gloat about it?
It was an attempt at softening the frigging truth - as I added:
Serioulsy though - there is too much stress in your life. Find ways to reduce and eliminate it, and those people will no longer be problematic.
Job, family, finance issues and who knows what else the person is dealing with all cause stress. Probably she looked to her time at the crags as a luxury in getting away from it or working through the aggravation her body was storing. Add the crash from climbing season's end end...
On the other hand, maybe it was just a PMS day that set off the rampaging post. I know that 2 x a year, for about 3 hours in the morning, even though every other day of the year is fine, everything - and I mean everything - seems excrutiatingly annoying. I try to avoid others on those days; because they could be smiling and offering gifts and all sorts of nice things and I would still feel like....at least going "postal" like the OP
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chadnsc
Nov 23, 2010, 5:14 PM
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Happy this is K's rant, not yours. If you want to talk about yourself start your own thread.
(This post was edited by chadnsc on Nov 23, 2010, 5:22 PM)
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ChalkIsCheap
Nov 23, 2010, 5:15 PM
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chadnsc wrote: ChalkIsCheap wrote: rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR Up here in Canada, rock climbing is done for this time of year. I'm freezing right now and it's not even snowing yet... Harden the fuck up you wimp.
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chadnsc
Nov 23, 2010, 5:21 PM
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ChalkIsCheap wrote: chadnsc wrote: ChalkIsCheap wrote: rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR Up here in Canada, rock climbing is done for this time of year. I'm freezing right now and it's not even snowing yet... Harden the fuck up you wimp. I am hard, I just hate the fucking cold.
I wasn't asking if you where aroused.
I was telling you to toughen up you pansy.
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Nov 23, 2010, 5:23 PM
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chadnsc wrote: areyoumydude wrote: Kartessa wrote: I haven't seen an angry rant in a while. Could it be that douche bags are becoming few and far between? I doubt it. From recent observation, they now travel in packs, like middle-aged greasers looking to pick on the little kids. Dear Gym-Rat Assholes, I know that trash talking is the easiest way to masturbate your ego. I know that I don't crush as hard as your kid/girlfriend/cousin from Parry Sound. But could you please take satisfaction in your superiority by proxy in silence? I don't care. Don't talk to me. Crazy bitch: Yeah, your kid finished this route and I fell off. I don't weigh 50lbs and have an eating disorder that I got from my mom. You too, should eat something. I saw how you were eyeing my sandwich, and I didn't appreciate it. If you would stop starving yourself, you might be able hold yourself upright for more than 3 moves. Your voice annoys me. Don't talk to me. Hairy Bastard: Good for you on your redpoint on this 27ft wall of doom. Where the fuck did you come from? Who are you to tell me that I can't make this move and that the next one is totally out of my league. I've never met you before, and I hope never to see you again. Don't talk to me. Fat Fucker: Shut your fucking trap. You've been at the gym the last 3 months and I've never seen you tie in, or put your shoes on for that matter. You sit on the carpet with your big bottle of water, sweating out your sloth, and commenting on everyone's attempt on grades you would never dream of trying yourself. Don't talk to me. Creepy guy who wears his harness too tight: I don't need your beta, but I would consider letting you talk to me if it meant you would never again try to touch me. I don't need a hug and I don't have any friends that would want to sleep with you. No, not even the ugly ones. Go play with yourself or boulder over there... Don't look at me like that. Why is it, if I go to the "regular" gym, people generally keep to themselves, maybe talk to their partner but at a climbing gym so many people feel entitled to spray to anyone in earshot? I've never felt such an urge to crack skulls with grigris like I did tonite and I hated that feeling. I just want to have a good time, push myself, and encourage my friends to do the same. ... Ok, rage subsiding, sleep time. Can't relate. I'd rather go for a hike or bike ride than climb in a gym. That's nice. You also don't have any kids. Live in an area with awsome year round climbing. And have a trust fun that allows you to climb without working for a living.
Hah! I wish. I do know a few trusties that live out here though.
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ChalkIsCheap
Nov 23, 2010, 5:30 PM
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chadnsc wrote: ChalkIsCheap wrote: chadnsc wrote: ChalkIsCheap wrote: rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR Up here in Canada, rock climbing is done for this time of year. I'm freezing right now and it's not even snowing yet... Harden the fuck up you wimp. I am hard, I just hate the fucking cold. I wasn't asking if you where aroused. I was telling you to toughen up you pansy.
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Nov 23, 2010, 5:31 PM
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ChalkIsCheap wrote: rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR Up here in Canada, rock climbing is done for this time of year. I'm freezing right now and it's not even snowing yet...
I disagree. Went limestone sport climbing last week.
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chadnsc wrote: Kartessa wrote: rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR What do you suggest I do instead? Quit my job, abandon my kid and move south so I can learn to crush hard 13s like you? The season here has ended and unless I want to spend the next 5 months couch-bound and watching Jersey Shore, this is all I get. Actually in RB speak he's asking you to move in with him and climb at his secrete crags.
I got the distinct impression that she wouldn't be too interested in RR's secretions.
Jay
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Nov 23, 2010, 6:13 PM
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No one is interested in my secretions. But hey...apparently I can crush 5.13 now! I love it when my badassness gets built up online!
RR
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chadnsc
Nov 23, 2010, 7:03 PM
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jt512 wrote: chadnsc wrote: Kartessa wrote: rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR What do you suggest I do instead? Quit my job, abandon my kid and move south so I can learn to crush hard 13s like you? The season here has ended and unless I want to spend the next 5 months couch-bound and watching Jersey Shore, this is all I get. Actually in RB speak he's asking you to move in with him and climb at his secrete crags. I got the distinct impression that she wouldn't be too interested in RR's secretions. Jay
Duh, like anyone would be.
Then again he does climb .13's. . . . . 
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rangerrob wrote: I have a radical idea. Stop going to the gym. That seems to be your main problem. RR
Well now you are just talking crazy talk
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Kartessa wrote: IsayAutumn wrote: Maybe if you were more of an asshole, people wouldn't talk to you. It works for me. Finally some advice I can work with.
My personal favorites are when weightlifter types from a regular gym come in and spray about how easy it's going to be then 3 feet off the ground are crying "don't drop me Brah!!"
Then you just sail past them...
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Kartessa wrote: IsayAutumn wrote: Maybe if you were more of an asshole, people wouldn't talk to you. It works for me. Finally some advice I can work with.
jess...
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donald949 wrote: Kartessa wrote: IsayAutumn wrote: Maybe if you were more of an asshole, people wouldn't talk to you. It works for me. Finally some advice I can work with. Well then what u wait four, get on it. jess...
As soon as the munchkin's down ill put on my bitch face.
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Kartessa wrote: donald949 wrote: Kartessa wrote: IsayAutumn wrote: Maybe if you were more of an asshole, people wouldn't talk to you. It works for me. Finally some advice I can work with. Well then what u wait four, get on it. jess... As soon as the munchkin's down ill put on my bitch face.
Yea, I'm talking to you Kart.
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Kartessa wrote: donald949 wrote: Kartessa wrote: IsayAutumn wrote: Maybe if you were more of an asshole, people wouldn't talk to you. It works for me. Finally some advice I can work with. Well then what u wait four, get on it. jess... As soon as the munchkin's down ill put on my bitch face.
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Kartessa wrote: I've never felt such an urge to crack skulls with grigris like I did tonite and I hated that feeling. I just want to have a good time, push myself, and encourage my friends to do the same. ... Ok, rage subsiding, sleep time.
Your rant reminded me of a gym experience I had once after a particularly shitty day of work topping off several shitty weeks. I had gone through a series of boulder problems, slowly unwinding a bit more with each problem. In a better frame of mind I headed over to pick up up my stuff and hit the road when a little too agro gym employee asked me if I had checked in.
"Uh, yeah, when I first came in."
"Are you sure? What's your last name"
"Umm, yeah I'm fucking sure, What's your problem and why are you in my face?'
I was pretty pissed, because I had managed to de-stress over the last hour and a half, and some ass just reset my whole mood.
So, I for one enjoyed your rant. Luckily my gym has a very low key friendly vibe 99% of the time. If push comes to shove, get a shirt with "Don't talk to me" silk screened on the back, climb with an iPod with your earbuds readily visible, maybe even wear sunglasses.
If that doesn't work put a potato in your underwear; either the front or back should work.
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Sunglasses in the gym...and you think folks won't talk?
'Course the potato might keep them away. 
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Kartessa wrote: Creepy guy who wears his harness too tight: I don't need your beta, but I would consider letting you talk to me if it meant you would never again try to touch me. I don't need a hug and I don't have any friends that would want to sleep with you. No, not even the ugly ones. Go play with yourself or boulder over there... Don't look at me like that.
It would appear that I need to get myself a Cafe Press account so I can sell you a "No Beta" shirt.
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