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climberbabe79
May 5, 2006, 12:33 AM
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Hello gorgeous climber girls!
Ah, boy dilemma...Have been seeing a guy for 8 months on and off and i'm sick of it basically. I worked out the pros and cons in my life and realised he was the only thing that made me unhappy. Then worked out pros and cons of the relationship and came to the conclusion that the only reasons i continued to be with him was the physical side and the fact that in two months (after his shoulder heals) he will become another climbing partner to add to my list!! (He is quite experienced and would prove useful) Other than that we are totally incompatible and he can be a bit of a dickhead. And i thought he was selfish!! Think i should hang on another coupla months?! :lol:
hey - any aussie climbers out there? Any single mom climbers?
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climbinginchico
May 5, 2006, 3:54 AM
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Ditch him. Who wants to climb with a "dickhead?" I know I don't.
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carabiner96
May 6, 2006, 5:32 AM
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if you can single him out as being the only thing that you're unhappy about, there's your sign to leave his ass on the side of the road!!!
there are plenty of hot climber dudes for us smokin' chicks to feed on...i mean prey....uh, i mean date.
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acacongua
May 6, 2006, 11:00 AM
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Ditch him, but do it politely in case you need a dial-a-**** in the future.
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granite_grrl
May 6, 2006, 11:59 AM
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If you don't normally jive outside of the bedroom, what makes you think you'll get much out of climbing with him?
Lots of other fish in the sea, it really isn't too hard to find another bed buddy or experianced climbing partners.
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justthemaid
May 6, 2006, 10:28 PM
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You are in Australia for christsakes!
You can't spit without hitting a climbing hottie. They're thick as locusts there.
Surely you can find somone who you are a more compatable with?
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sg81hani
May 7, 2006, 2:26 PM
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erm...i'm guilty for holding on to a boy too...n for more than a yr... he's pretty much piss me off on and off the wall every now n then but somehow i just got stuck with him cos he's a gd climber and a damn trusted belayer.... plus we've been quite close outside the gym and i kinda build up some feelings for the guy....now i'm finidng it hard to let go...esp now that we seldom climb together :(
i wish this thread came in sooner!!!!....My advice...leave b4 u get stuck!!!!
take care girl!!
ps: i'm in s'pore n unlike australia...there ain't many hotties ard!!!
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bad_lil_kitty
May 7, 2006, 6:36 PM
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And using him makes this a better situation how, again?
Maybe a bit harsh, but if you're seriously asking yourself if you should let him stick around, sounds like he's not the only person being selfish?
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climberbabe79
May 8, 2006, 5:02 AM
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Yeh ur totally right lil kitty. I broke it off with him on the weekend. Cold turkey is the only way cos there is too much chemistry for us to be friends.
No fear, i have plenty of climbing partners already and will find the right boy eventually, maybe, oh who cares as long as i can climb! :wink:
Thanks peeps!
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bad_lil_kitty
May 8, 2006, 10:37 PM
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As my aussie climbing mates (who are back in Australia) say, "Good on ya!"
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