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alpinelynx
Sep 21, 2003, 10:41 PM
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I was wondering if any of you ladies had issues with men. I find myself frequently aggravated with them. I ask because I just got a phone call to go to a BBQ at a friends house where a recent affair will be in house. I haven't talked to my friend the host for a while and would love to attend. anyways, I'm babbling and curious if other girls out there love 'em and hate 'em.
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ropegungirl
Sep 22, 2003, 12:19 AM
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I believe I know where you are coming from...I can say with certainty, that as much as you may not want to go to this BBQ - GO!! Do not let a man stand in your way of having a good time and seeing old friends.
I have had many frustrations with men lately and the stories are too long to string along in a forum thread. Just remember to live your life for you and to always be the bigger, better person - you will feel great after you have gone and faced the music and know that you made it out alive!!!!
Cheers and Good Luck
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mewalrus
Sep 22, 2003, 3:10 AM
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In reply to: the stories are too long to string along in a forum thread.
Naw you can string us along. :twisted:
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catra
Sep 22, 2003, 6:29 AM
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I say Go... who cares if he's there...
Michelle think more positive and you will attract a more positive guy.....
Just my thought....
Catra
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enigma
Sep 22, 2003, 7:03 AM
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In reply to: I say Go... who cares if he's there... Michelle think more positive and you will attract a more positive guy..... Just my thought.... Catra
Hmmn that sounds insightful. And I may add at this juncture I think you made your mr. into a much more positive guy. :P
Alpinelynx,also think you should go but bring someone better looking/smarter etc. on your arm.
As for the original question, I'm still debating. :roll:
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arak42
Sep 22, 2003, 4:37 PM
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heck yes go... and wear something that you look and feel sexy in (but subtle). I love it when I run into an old fling and you can just tell what he is thinking. Something like: "holy crap, she looks good. Did she look that good when I was with her. And I let her get away... stupid stupid stupid... Maybe if I gawk and stare she will sleep with me again"
ha... I have such a low opinion of guys sometimes. Except the one i am with right now, I think he is the greatest thing since sliced bread!
K
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sroehlk
Sep 22, 2003, 5:52 PM
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Go and have a good time! Don't let an ex stand in your way. Remember they're your friends to!
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climberchic
Sep 22, 2003, 9:29 PM
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climberchic moved this thread from The Ladies Room to Community.
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timstich
Sep 22, 2003, 9:34 PM
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In reply to: climberchic moved this thread from The Ladies Room to Community.
It appears that men just aren't a woman's issue.
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nnichols
Sep 22, 2003, 9:53 PM
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okay, Aunt Aggie - go for it.
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hangerlessbolt
Sep 22, 2003, 10:02 PM
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Shouldn’t this thread being tossed into community be considered cruel and unusual punishment…LoL
Let me start off with: if you’re having “issues” with men in general…it’s probably not that “Y” chromosome that is your problem…however, any further assistance in this matter will require an office, a small couch, and a therapist.
As far as an “affair” showing up to a party…
I say go…feel it out…if all is well, then you’re stylin…if things aren’t going well…bail…come back here and tell us all how bad men are.
-Hanger
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calamity_chk
Sep 22, 2003, 10:02 PM
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i say go. if he cant trust you enough to be in the same house with an old flame, then he's not worth keeping around. also, no one - male or female - is worth keeping you from what you want. people that try to stifle or control you should be promptly ejected from your life.
jmho,
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camhead
Sep 23, 2003, 12:32 AM
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I wonder how come climberchic is throwing so many threads into community today? her hormones must be out of wack or something.
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climberchic
Sep 23, 2003, 4:15 AM
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Not out of whack. Just trying to keep the LR from turning into Community.
The Ladies Room is for female-related climbing issues and this is not one of them. PMs are always sent to the original poster before "tossing" them anywhere.
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thomasribiere
Sep 23, 2003, 6:51 PM
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forum ayatollAh (female gender!).
I would say, go. And who knows, recent affairs can become future affairs... well, if you like yoyo...
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alpinelynx
Sep 25, 2003, 10:54 PM
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In reply to: Not out of whack. Just trying to keep the LR from turning into Community. The Ladies Room is for female-related climbing issues and this is not one of them. PMs are always sent to the original poster before "tossing" them anywhere.
I suppose if I wanted the community at large to discuss the topic I would have posted it in the community. I was interested in the women climbers' opinions on the issue. Maybe I should have included that he was a climber and we climbed together. Have you moved all of the breast/skin/hair/breakups whatever posts over to community yet, or haven't you gotten to that? Seeing as many of those posts have nothing to do with womens climbing issues, I expect the action soon. thanks.
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calamity_chk
Sep 25, 2003, 10:58 PM
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wow. that was a pretty abrupt response.
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hangerlessbolt
Sep 25, 2003, 11:00 PM
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Normally I wouldn’t be the instigator in something of this nature…
But this is going to be good!
Please don’t go doing anything crazy like taking this to PM’s…
/grabs pop-corn and a chair and sits next to the mud-pit
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calamity_chk
Sep 25, 2003, 11:02 PM
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cant we just all have a group hug or something?
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calliope
Sep 25, 2003, 11:04 PM
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Kum-bah-ya, my lord. Kum-bah-ya
Who brought the marshmallows?
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calamity_chk
Sep 25, 2003, 11:05 PM
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not me .. but i have some brightly colored flowers ..
/goes around the circle passing out gerbera daisies/
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calliope
Sep 25, 2003, 11:08 PM
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Well, I guess they'll have to do.
Hangerless, can you pass the popcorn?
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hangerlessbolt
Sep 25, 2003, 11:11 PM
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/tosses popcorn at Angela...*giggle*
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calliope
Sep 25, 2003, 11:22 PM
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In reply to: /tosses popcorn at Angela...*giggle*
Nice. It's in my hair. Never mind. :evil:
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