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carnaged
Mar 30, 2004, 3:51 AM
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So there's this boy in my math class who I've totally been crushing on lately and I don't really know how to go about telling him without screwing up our nutty friend-relationship. He's not really a typical high-school boy either, he's a nerd. But a cool nerd? Yeah, we blow off math homework to talk about how cool we are.
He's like Jewish and stuff. Well, half jewish. Does that make him half selebate?
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unabonger
Mar 30, 2004, 4:21 AM
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Drop subtle hints. Here's a few:
Drop a pen in front of him and slowly bend over to pick it up in front of him, while naked.
Make him a cake decorated with rubbers.
Do all his homework for him. Naked.
Accidently spill 32oz of cold water over your white tank top.
Tell him you had a dream about him last night and you couldn't believe how big his calculator was.
Email him a link to this post.
Hope this helps.
The DearUnaBonger...
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moabbeth
Mar 30, 2004, 4:29 AM
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Nice unabonger.
Since I've been outta HS so long I can't be of much help.
But I remember in Clueless when Alicia Silverstone's character was trying to get the hot new guy in school's attention she mentioned something about wearing lots of tan and flesh colored clothing....cause it makes them think of you naked.
Or something like that. :lol: :lol:
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camhead
Mar 30, 2004, 4:42 AM
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what is "selebate?"
you could make him a birdfeeder out of an egg carton...
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carnaged
Mar 30, 2004, 4:44 AM
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In reply to: Tell him you had a dream about him last night and you couldn't believe how big his calculator was.
Wow, if that's not innuendo then I dont know what is. But it doesnt work when you have the exact same calculator :lol:
And the naked ideas aren't fit for school. Or else I'd consider it. :D
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carnaged
Mar 30, 2004, 4:47 AM
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In reply to: what is "selebate?" you could make him a birdfeeder out of an egg carton...
selebacy: abstinence til marriage. It's part of the Jewish culture (or nature?)
I'd be afraid to make him a bird feeder. He told me he once had a fish, but it only survived a few months with him.
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Mar 30, 2004, 4:58 AM
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In reply to: In reply to: what is "selebate?" you could make him a birdfeeder out of an egg carton... selebacy: abstinence til marriage. It's part of the Jewish culture (or nature?) I'd be afraid to make him a bird feeder. He told me he once had a fish, but it only survived a few months with him.
That would be celibacy not selebacy. I`m suggesting blowing math class and concentrating on english for a week or two. :lol: :lol: Only kidding, I wouldn`t bust your chops for that, I just couldn`t resist.
Why don`t you just straight out tell him how you feel. He`s probably wondering how to do exactly the same thing as you girl. Go for it, if he is a true friend he will be cool with it all.
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Mar 30, 2004, 4:59 AM
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In reply to: In reply to: what is "selebate?" you could make him a birdfeeder out of an egg carton... selebacy: abstinence til marriage. It's part of the Jewish culture (or nature?) I'd be afraid to make him a bird feeder. He told me he once had a fish, but it only survived a few months with him.
I know from experience that not all Jews are celibate.
Just ask him on a date. That usually works.
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carnaged
Mar 30, 2004, 5:05 AM
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You've watched way too many sitcoms,
I've told him many times that I love him, but with our goofy relationship he thinks i'm just teasing him and he calls "bull shit". So even if I did try to tell him the truth seriously, He'd still call it on me. Because that's what we've got going on.
He's also like, allergic to everything. I wouldn't be suprised to find out that he's allergic to me as well. Heh.
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josephine
Mar 30, 2004, 6:00 AM
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In reply to: He's also like, allergic to everything. I wouldn't be suprised to find out that he's allergic to me as well. Heh.
:lol:
hmmm i wouldn't recommend the go for it thingy
I have done it...and ummmmm after that i slapped myself for that...
and my lesson was to stfu and let things roll as they are...
And from that moment i became a chicken http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/16/16_3_122.gif
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Mar 30, 2004, 6:05 AM
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I've been out of high school for 4 years, so I guess that isn't that long. But I've never had the courage to go up to a guy and tell him how I feel. Just do it, lay it out there and like they said...if he's a good enough friend he'll understand. I still have regrets to this day not telling my best friend in HS that I liked him...a lot. Do it! :)
And btw..it doesn't get any easier in college...
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knuckles
Mar 30, 2004, 6:18 AM
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Just have lunch with him
Make sure that your lunch consists of carrots, chocolate covered strawberries, keilbasa, pretty much anything you can eat in a very graphic way.
By the end of this lunch, if you've done your job right (pun intended) you will own this boy
unless, of course, he's you've mistaken 'nerd' for 'really really gay'
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jumpingrock
Mar 30, 2004, 7:25 AM
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Heh Heh... poor girl. Ask him on a "date" Somewhere intimate like a movie or something like that. That will allow you to make a subtle move like putting your hand on his leg or something like that. Trust me on that he is probably in love with you and doesn't want to screw up your relationship. My girl, remember the motto, the greater the risk the greater the reward. You want this guy you gotta go for him.
PS I wouldn't do the naked things but I suppose that is up to you. I did like the lunch idea though! :lol:
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robbovius
Mar 30, 2004, 12:26 PM
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In reply to: In reply to: what is "selebate?" you could make him a birdfeeder out of an egg carton... selebacy: abstinence til marriage. It's part of the Jewish culture (or nature?) I'd be afraid to make him a bird feeder. He told me he once had a fish, but it only survived a few months with him.
Carnaged, he was commenting on your speling...it's "celibate"
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robbovius
Mar 30, 2004, 12:29 PM
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In reply to: I've been out of high school for 4 years...
you'r still a pup, n00b! ;-)
In reply to: And btw..it doesn't get any easier in college...
from this 48-year old's persepctive, it doesn't get any easier, ever. ;-)
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roughster
Mar 30, 2004, 12:31 PM
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In reply to: In reply to: I've been out of high school for 4 years... you'r still a pup, n00b! ;-) In reply to: And btw..it doesn't get any easier in college... from this 48-year old's persepctive, it doesn't get any easier, ever. ;-)
Actually it does! Once you get married it becomes a lot easier! :lol: I have been married since I was 20 and never regretted it for a minute considering all the hassles I see dating is at advanced ages 8)
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josephine
Mar 30, 2004, 12:58 PM
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In reply to: In reply to: In reply to: I've been out of high school for 4 years... you'r still a pup, n00b! ;-) In reply to: And btw..it doesn't get any easier in college... from this 48-year old's persepctive, it doesn't get any easier, ever. ;-) Actually it does! Once you get married it becomes a lot easier! :lol: I have been married since I was 20 and never regretted it for a minute considering all the hassles I see dating is at advanced ages 8)
Wow cool roughster...how old are you now?
guess #1...hmmmmmm 30ish?
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roughster
Mar 30, 2004, 1:09 PM
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In reply to: Wow cool roughster...how old are you now? guess #1...hmmmmmm 30ish?
I am 31 going on 50 (feels like) :lol:. Will be 32 in 3 months. So yep, this is our 11th anniversary! Of all my friends that I have seen married from both before and after my wedding, my wife and I are (not joking) the only couple still together. Pretty sad considering most of those marriages yielded kids as well :(
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Mar 30, 2004, 1:23 PM
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roughster is right. dating blows big donkey chunks. flirting in high school is exciting.
i remember it just like it was yesterday, but the one thing I do remember is that dating in high school has much less to do with whether you actually like someone that alot of other things. in high school, you haven't figured out yourself, much less everyone else.
i remember all those questions that used to be so important: what will everyone else think? will my friends make fun of me? do we hold hands or not? will i lose my street cred' by dating a preppy?
honestly, those were all the things that made it exciting. so really, just go up and talk to him. don't be desperate, and make sure he knows you've got a life outside of crushing on him. once he knows that, he'll be interested.
even if he's not... there's always that cute guy behind you in math class.
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josephine
Mar 30, 2004, 1:41 PM
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In reply to: In reply to: Wow cool roughster...how old are you now? guess #1...hmmmmmm 30ish? I am 31 going on 50 (feels like) :lol:. Will be 32 in 3 months. So yep, this is our 11th anniversary! Of all my friends that I have seen married from both before and after my wedding, my wife and I are (not joking) the only couple still together. Pretty sad considering most of those marriages yielded kids as well :(
WOOHOO...i'm the best...i knew it,actually i was going to say 30-32
50? no way :P naaah you don't feel 50 to me :wink:
really cool Aaron...11years lovely :)
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dookie
Mar 30, 2004, 2:17 PM
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hmmmm, high school....
write a note? or I suppose in this day it would be send a text message?!?
and it has to be cheezy and say things like "I know we're good friends, but I can't fight this feeling anymore" and "do you think you might want to sometime, like, go out on a date or something? I totally understand if you, like, don't want to!"
seriously, though, I understand where you're coming from, because my best friends have always been guys, and I've found myself liking my best friends from time to time... chances are if he likes you enough to be your friend, he definatley likes you enough to go on a date. Unless you don't want to ruin the friendship (which, being in high school, will likely happen if it doesn't work out), in which case you stay friends and then you'll never know ;)
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cobra652004
Mar 30, 2004, 2:42 PM
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Dude just come on to him. Be very direct w/ it or he might not understand - we males are kind of dense. Anyway, if he's like every other guy I know he would probably think it was awesome that there was a girl hitting on him b/c that is hardly ever the case. Just tell him you're taking him somewhere and then when you're alone go for it and start making out w/ him. And I mean, hell, if he didn't like you before I bet he will after that. Girls have so much power over guys it's obscene, and I bet he doesn't know how to counter it yet, so just go for it!
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Mar 30, 2004, 2:56 PM
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...just remember..all boys turn into to men, and men are pigs. Whip him while you can, keep him in line and then drop him once the "newness" of it all fades.... seriously now....if he asks you out say ye sor no, of you want to ask him out, then ask him out. College is easier, but I have to agree, after being with the same person for nearly 10 years I do not miss any of the dating crap (just the anoymous sex :wink: )
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unabonger
Mar 30, 2004, 3:11 PM
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In reply to: I've told him many times that I love him
That should scare him away.
The FrightenedBonger
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Mar 30, 2004, 3:17 PM
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In reply to: and it has to be cheezy and say things like "I know we're good friends, but I can't fight this feeling anymore"
Oh yeah, Dookie nailed it. Just send him this. Chances are he, and you, have never heard it! :lol: :lol: :lol:
I can't fight this feeling any longer.
And yet I'm still afraid to let it flow.
What started out as friendship,
Has grown stronger.
I only wish I had the strength to let it show.
I tell myself that I can't hold OUT forever.
I said there is no reason for my fear.
Cause I feel so secure when we're together.
You give my life direction,
You make everything so clear.
And even as I WANDER,
I'm keeping you in sight.
You're a candle in the window,
On a cold, dark winter's night.
And I'm getting closer than I ever THOUGHT I MIGHT.
And I can't fight this feeling anymore.
I've forgotten what I started fighting for.
It's time to bring this ship into the shore,
And throw away the oars, forever.
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