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slablizard


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Jglo!

I was trying not to post here anymore, they hate me already and I could not see that " Am I a perv" and under "Slablizard" in scummunity...lol Laugh

But then how can I betray my brother here..
So what is that you want to do? Be carefull...they bite here!


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Jglo!

I was trying not to post here anymore, they hate me already and I could not see that " Am I a perv" and under "Slablizard" in scummunity...lol Laugh

But then how can I betray my brother here..
So what is that you want to do? Be carefull...they bite here!

Firstly, che cazzo me ne frega che tutte le picciune ca caminar con tutta men' affouri? To set the record straight, we stare at American women because if we stare at Italian women they beat us. WHAP! Col scarpone. Minghia!

But I don't care about that topic. I care about the blatant racialism towards Italians in this country. Can't say anything about the blacks, can't say anything about women, oh no. But you fuckers can make an entire movie about how stupid/violent/lazy (take your pick) we are and we have to sit there and be like, "haha, itsa funny, right? Donna worry bout it. I'm-a justa beegga idiot, right? Haha. You wanna me a make-a you a pizza pie? Okay, I go make-a da pizza pie."

FUCK THAT!

We found this country, we named this country and we built this country (with some limited help from the Blacks, the Irish and the Chinese). We had to make the map so these fuckers could find this place. America is an Italian name, therefore this is an Italian country. Everyone can leave now.

and P.S. we made this fucking sport too. This is an Italian sport, like calcio.

But we don't have 'The Italian's Room,' do we? I want an Italians Room. Where's DDT? I want my Italian's Room or I am going to get all Al Sharpton on RC.com's ass. Not a Euro room, not even a Southern Euro room, an Italian Room.

:taps foot;

I'm waiting!! Get on with it.


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jgloporto wrote:
slablizard wrote:
Jglo!

I was trying not to post here anymore, they hate me already and I could not see that " Am I a perv" and under "Slablizard" in scummunity...lol Laugh

But then how can I betray my brother here..
So what is that you want to do? Be carefull...they bite here!

Firstly, che cazzo me ne frega che tutte le picciune ca caminar con tutta men' affouri? To set the record straight, we stare at American women because if we stare at Italian women they beat us. WHAP! Col scarpone. Minghia!

But I don't care about that topic. I care about the blatant racialism towards Italians in this country. Can't say anything about the blacks, can't say anything about women, oh no. But you fuckers can make an entire movie about how stupid/violent/lazy (take your pick) we are and we have to sit there and be like, "haha, itsa funny, right? Donna worry bout it. I'm-a justa beegga idiot, right? Haha. You wanna me a make-a you a pizza pie? Okay, I go make-a da pizza pie."

FUCK THAT!

We found this country, we named this country and we built this country (with some limited help from the Blacks, the Irish and the Chinese). We had to make the map so these fuckers could find this place. America is an Italian name, therefore this is an Italian country. Everyone can leave now.

and P.S. we made this fucking sport too. This is an Italian sport, like calcio.

But we don't have 'The Italian's Room,' do we? I want an Italians Room. Where's DDT? I want my Italian's Room or I am going to get all Al Sharpton on RC.com's ass. Not a Euro room, not even a Southern Euro room, an Italian Room.

:taps foot;

I'm waiting!! Get on with it.

I love this guy

JGLO! My lost BROTHER!

Minchia you're right...I was at this resort in Sardinia...I didn't know where to look...ahh beautiful women well dressed...sipping a martini istead of diet coke...smoking if they like to, without no one fake-coughing from the other side of the road...ahh the freedom..

then my wife would show up with the kids...


JUST KIDDING HONEY :)

Hey! the man is right, we are a minority and we want the Italian room! CAPISH?


One little kid in Sardinia (notoriously poor region of Italy) really really wants a red bicicle for Christmas, he writes a letter to baby jesus (In Italy we write to baby jesus yes) asking:
"Dear BJ, I really really REALLY want a red bike...I have been very good this year..signed..Gavino.

His dad is shit poor, so the kid gets a piece of charcoal (the typical gift for naughty kids) and an apple.
SO another Christms comes...same thing..Jesus, I've been very good, please bring me the red bike...
He gets a potato and 2 pieces of rock.

the third Christmas the kid goes to the nativity in his kitchen, grabs the baby jesus little statue and writes:

Dear virgin Mary, if you want to see your son again bring me a FUCKING RED BIKE TOMORROW!

Gavino.

So the point is..to make me come down there....DO the Italian room..or I'll do an Italian job on ya

Capish?
Sly


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Damn right, ma fra!

And don't worry about these donne ameriCANE. They cluck like chickens but they wouldn't know what do with a chicken to save their lives. Seriously, chicken plus heat does not equal food.

Anyway, I'm off to the gym. I'm gonna send a couple of 11's and flop around on some 12's and then I'm coming home and there better be an Italian's Room when I get back.


Peppinedduu


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Eh Peppineddu...
rip da gym down and show what Italians are made of.
We really really really need to go out for drinks.

ciao

Paolo


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slablizard wrote:
you sound so..bitter? Why?
........... what's the big deal? ..I don't see why appreciating one's beauty has to be seen as "ogling"
:)
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it seems basic hetro sexual behavior is "perverted" to the PC set. you know, the feminist man haters who end up 40 and alone, reading ov er their vagina monologues.

to the OP, don't be such a puss, selling the "i wanna be your friend" angle. i'd think that, at 45, you'd know how to man up. so you like climbing with hot women, no shame in the game. at least we know you're alive. what's shameful is to be in denial.


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jcrew wrote:
it seems basic hetro sexual behavior is "perverted" to the PC set. you know, the feminist man haters who end up 40 and alone, reading ov er their vagina monologues.

oh god, i wish i had a dollar for every misogynist out there who has repeated that tired old feminist line.


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An Italian room?!? Fuck that! We need a Canadian room. Everywhere I post theres you yanks everywhere... talking about getting conceled carry licenses, Jesus, bush sucks, bush rules. Frankly, I need a peaceful, supportive and empowering Canadian community.


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Wow jcrew so nice to have you join us so late in this thread with your infinite wisdom. Obviously when you speak you are trying to find an "angle" when I speak or ask a question, it is out of sincerity!! a true desire to have an answer, maybe to even learn sorething.. I shouldn't be a puss, I should man up, Oh and yes I'm in denial. I never said I didn't like beautiful women I just don't think I can "do" every one of them. I do however have the ability to watch one climb and say "wow, she can climb" Ok let's talk about heart surgery. Something else you know nothing about! Post something more than meaningless words or go to basketweaving.com


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climb_eng wrote:
An Italian room?!? Fuck that! We need a Canadian room. Everywhere I post theres you yanks everywhere... talking about getting conceled carry licenses, Jesus, bush sucks, bush rules. Frankly, I need a peaceful, supportive and empowering Canadian community.

If they make a Canadian Room before The Italians Room I swear to God I will grab a Louisville Slugger, single handedly conquor Canada and rule the land with an iron fist. Gone will be the days of French Canadian nuns dancing and singing in the streets. All will kneel before Zod!... I mean me. Socialized medicine and the Canadian Football League will be disbanded. Flannel shirts will be collected and burned and the use of the word "hoser" will be made illegal punishable by death. There will be great suffering. Except for all of Montreal's fine exotic dancers... they'll be permitted to carry on as usual.


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I sense a move to campground coming.


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slablizard wrote:
wonderwoman wrote:

It's a great picture, but instead of commenting on the quality of boulder problem, the strenght of the climber, or anything climbing related, this loser mentions her chest. That is degrading and humiliating to that woman who is likely a very strong climber, and deserves some respect.

I get it..what I don't get is why it has to be "degrading" ? Humiliating? Why? Just because he noticed a body feature? The comment doesn't sounds rude or offensive, I can understand if you said "uncalled for" but "humiliating"?

That's all I am saying...I am al for respect for all, women and men , but being oversensitive doesn't make your life easier...Someone comments (positively) on your body? Why not smile and take it as what it is? A compliment?

You can answer " thanks, but I posted the pics because of the move, not to show off my breast"

I don't know it seems obvious to me...of course within the limits of good taste... Am I wrong?

The picture isn't of me--but I would find it offensive if any stranger ever said to me "nice tits!" I don't show strangers my boobs, and they should not be commenting on them.

"nice tits" is not the equivalent of "you look beautiful". I don't find the second offensive (somewhat misplaced in the current situation, but not offensive).

Do you really think because the guy is expressing appreciation that it's automatically not offensive? Or is there another point you're trying to make?


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Hey comet...
Nice pic on AC D Dog...love that route. You should come down at the gold wall...many new gems.

Anyway, I would never say "nice tits" to a woman, and I guess the point has been lost..at this point...Laugh
I thought that someone tended to be overly sensitive, but later I realized I didn't got the scenario right since I skipped a couple of posts, and didn't know the story of that picture i particular.
In general I think that a well educated and sincere compliment should be taken as it is,...a compliment. That said I would not consider "nice tits" a compliment that I would say. Neither I would launch myselfin unrequested compliments unless the situation gets flirty suddently.

And no, the source doesn't matter,. I guess that if a woman told you the same "nice tits" you would react the same.



comet wrote:
The picture isn't of me--but I would find it offensive if any stranger ever said to me "nice tits!" I don't show strangers my boobs, and they should not be commenting on them.

"nice tits" is not the equivalent of "you look beautiful". I don't find the second offensive (somewhat misplaced in the current situation, but not offensive).

Do you really think because the guy is expressing appreciation that it's automatically not offensive? Or is there another point you're trying to make?


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I don't climb hard enough yet to have fun at gold wall! Maybe next year :)

Relieved you don't think "nice tits" is a compliment when it comes from a stranger (of either gender). Thanks for clearing that up!


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notapplicable wrote:
I sense a move to campground coming.

It better not be moved to campground. That has already been tried with another sensitive thread. CrazyPirate

I will add that this thread has been conducted by and large in a civil and diplomatic way. Most participants have kept a lid on what otherwise could have been a subject that could be carried away in invective and outright trollery and flaming. Thanks for keeping it real peeps.

Now back to your regular scheduled program.

Edit to say to slab, get a hat man, damn.


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wonderwoman wrote:
Here's another RC.com recent example of why some of us are touchy. Here's a perfectly awesome front page pic of a strong woman climber in a beautiful setting:



Second comment:
"nice ti...i mean pic"

Hey, I know lilred--and she's hot...also married now, but that's irrelevant.

Curt


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Well, have we learned anything from this thread? I have learned that I don't have the vocabulary or the brains to compete with you guys on this site!!! I've learned that the strangest of threads can drag on and on. I've learned women are more sensitive than I thought and men are bigger ass holes than I thought, all in all it has been pretty entertaining. Have I found an answer to my original question? I think it's quite possible, I'm a perv! LOL


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summitseeker wrote:
Have I found an answer to my original question? I think it's quite possible, I'm a perv! LOL

I wouldnt be to worried about it. Not to long ago Kate (non climbing friend) was sitting next to me flipping through an issue of Rock and Ice when she came across an ad featuring climbings one and only stud, Chris Sharma. You know what her reaction was? Stroking the page with her finger she purred, "Damn, look at those abs, Mmm".

I'm not joking, that was her exact reaction. Woman are perv's to mi amigo, its part of the human condition. Thats not to say it cannot be taken to inappropriate levels but I promise you woman have the same reaction mentally men do when they see a nice strong back (of their preferred sex) rippling as they walk down the cliff line. Just dont express your feelings out loud to strangers and your good.


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I think what many ladies may not understand from this thread, is that men (generally) are not insulted by sexual comments or innuendo from women. In fact it is almost always welcome. And as demonstrated by Slabs participation, even negative comments are appreciated as a type of attention.

As such, men have a difficult time actually understanding or empathizing why women wouldn't want something they themselves would like. So what happens is that they are simply told at some point that it is unwelcome, and some learn that it usually doesn't get them anywhere.

So responding either way to a guys picture is unlikely to teach him anything about how ladies prefer to be treated. But maybe if you get really creative you can come up with something really good it might work. You never know!


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philbox wrote:
Edit to say to slab, get a hat man, damn.

Why...you don' like my shaved head Cool?


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bent_gate wrote:
I think what many ladies may not understand from this thread, is that men (generally) are not insulted by sexual comments or innuendo from women. In fact it is almost always welcome. And as demonstrated by Slabs participation, even negative comments are appreciated as a type of attention.

As such, men have a difficult time actually understanding or empathizing why women wouldn't want something they themselves would like. So what happens is that they are simply told at some point that it is unwelcome, and some learn that it usually doesn't get them anywhere.

So responding either way to a guys picture is unlikely to teach him anything about how ladies prefer to be treated. But maybe if you get really creative you can come up with something really good it might work. You never know!

All very true words.


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slablizard wrote:
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Edit to say to slab, get a hat man, damn.

Why...you don' like my shaved head Cool?

I think its sexy. Will you let me rub it with baby oil so its all shiny!?!


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notapplicable wrote:
slablizard wrote:
philbox wrote:
Edit to say to slab, get a hat man, damn.

Why...you don' like my shaved head Cool?

I think its sexy. Will you let me rub it with baby oil so its all shiny!?!

well do we have someone else in the room (ahem) or it's just you and me...DUDE? Laugh


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slablizard wrote:
notapplicable wrote:
slablizard wrote:
philbox wrote:
Edit to say to slab, get a hat man, damn.

Why...you don' like my shaved head Cool?

I think its sexy. Will you let me rub it with baby oil so its all shiny!?!

well do we have someone else in the room (ahem) or it's just you and me...DUDE? Laugh

I'm sure I could arrange an audience if thats you thing.Tongue

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