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schveety
Jul 25, 2007, 2:54 AM
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dalguard - it seems you definitely got the jist of my post and understood the underlying psychology of feeling as if you're constantly trying to meet someone's expectations of yourself
unabonger - you're way off (at least way off in interpreting what I meant but my post) - I'm thinking you can't be a female, but who knows, we all tick differently. all I'm saying is that you misunderstood my post and my reactions to being pushed. I'm not a pyscho-sensitive shrew-biatch (and he's not a pushy man), there are just different personality types and hence different ways of feeling and reacting to someone pushing you every weekend. If it was a one time thing, I would brush it off, but when it's constant it can get to anyone. He knows he does it now and I've talked to him about letting me make my own decisions, instead of always suggesting that I should try or would like something. We all have to be free to make our own decisions without someone always commenting first. Now I get to say, hey, can I lead this pitch (when I feel like leading the pitch) - and he doesn't ask me when I don't ask because he knows I don't want it. And I'm certainly not going to let climbing be the be all and end all of my relationship - hardly - every couple rubs each other the wrong way once in a while and we're no different.... (that said - trust me that if he was telling me I was no good and threatening to give me penalty slack for being a pussy - he never would have made it to the fiance stage - mainly because he would probably exhibit this behavior in other areas of his life).
Love,
Schveety V
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