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rockie
Feb 10, 2009, 11:40 PM
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Gmburns2000 wrote: rockie wrote: clee03m wrote: I don't know why women choose to stay in relationships where they are forced to do most of the child care if they feel it is not fair. A good point. I've no idea why they marry in the first place in the above cases, do they not find out all this by first by living together prior to marriage? What else I do not understand (unrelated to this article), is some men I have met in the past who complained that they left their wives, or were no longer happy with their wives and later divorced, as they did not share the same sports in common, or they were not as active sports wise. Well again, did they not know this before they got married??  The simple answer to this is that people change. I changed, my ex-wife changed, we changed as a couple. We're still friends (we parted as friends) because we knew that we had taken it as far as we could. Neither was happy with the other, and yet we were so happy the first few years of our relationship. How can you possibly know what is going to happen several years down the road? To make expectations of the future based on who you are now is foolish. Grow, accept, change - do whatever you want, just don't expect the relationships you have now will be the same forever, because people change.
But that is just my point.. they did not change, at least those guys I knew.
They all told me, no they never were into that in the first place.
So then..
But I know people change, and as long as you adjust to that and accept it.. and have space apart (healthy), it should be okay. A lot of patience too I should think.
(This post was edited by rockie on Feb 10, 2009, 11:42 PM)
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